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Relationship Refresh: Achieve Your Deepest Desire and Experience True, Lasting Love!


Does Your Current Relationship Need a Spark?

Everybody dreams about finding true love—the everlasting romance depicted in stories from fairy tales to romantic comedies. But the reality is that many of us will seldom achieve a long-lasting, loving connection. How can you ignite your relationship to stay in love even past the honeymoon phase?


In the much-acclaimed Relationship Refresh, author and longtime relationship coach, Thomas Kuster, provides readers the necessary tools required to finally achieve an authentic and loving relationship with their partners. With his perfect blend of prescriptive advice, real-life stories and examples, and self-reflective exercises to walk you through his seven Love Spark steps, you will find the secret to uncovering your Bad Relationship Habits and unlocking your Deepest Desire for a much more exciting and fulfilling relationship. This book will help you understand:

–Why you should or should not stay in a relationship

–How to start paying attention—mindful attention— to your partner

–How to improve intimacy by letting go of judgment

– What it takes to live a life filled with satisfaction, peace, and happiness

–And how to provide a happy and loving home for your kids

When you diligently practice Love Sparks and integrate them into your everyday life, you will be on your way to discover your true love experience. A relationship on fire is the game, and practice is the method.


Product Details

Publisher ‏ : ‎ River Grove Books (September 14, 2021)

Language ‏ : ‎ English


Paperback ‏ : ‎ 158 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1632994313


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1632994318


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 7.4 ounces


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.4 x 8.5 inches


Editorial Reviews



"This book is full of deep personal life situations that Thomas uses as a simple guide to growing your intimate relationships. It is easy to read, and the principles are easy to apply. Thomas ends the book with this question, 'How will you make the experience and expression of love your life's pursuit?' I say, within the cover of this book are all the tools you would need for deep and long-lasting love. Relationship Refresh is a must-read for the lover within all of us!"

Georgiana Kovell, author of Women on a Mission, founder of Millions of Women Strong

"If you are looking for an owner's manual for building your intimate relationships, this is it. Too often, we feel like we are not in the driver's seat. Relationship Refresh will not only put you in the driver's seat, but will become your owner's manual. A lifetime guarantee for a relationship filled with satisfaction and fulfillment is packed within this book."

Jen Coken, author of When I Die, Take My Panties; speaker, author, and international executive coach


"Relationship Refresh is an excellent collection of tools for managing and growing relationships. I love how practical the work is and how easy he makes it to apply. The way Thomas connects with his reader by using authentic self-experiences makes its application very real. I am still shaking from the fear of his story when he discovered being left all alone in the middle of the ocean. Thomas is a master of the body of distinctions of love."


Ralph White, best-selling author of 12 Steps to Success in Business Life, CEO, business coach, Possibilities Unlimited, Inc.


"This book is easy to read. It showed me my blind spots and was very eye opening. I realized the bad behaviors that I still have in relationships and how to shift these behaviors so my partner feels loved, seen, and known. I am very grateful for this book because now I feel like I am more capable to have a healthy long-term relationship. The numerous examples in the book also helped me see that I am not alone. Thank you Thomas, for writing this extraordinary book."

Suzanne Mueller-Heinz, author of Loveable: 21 Practices for Being in a Loving & Fulfilling Relationship, international dating and love life coach and speaker; CEO of Loveablize


"I have known Thomas for many years and always seen him as a person who lives and speaks from his heart. His new book is a precious example of how a person who lives from their heart can make a huge difference in the lives of others. Thomas is an expert in supporting people in going beyond their self-sabotaging and habitual patterns to not only live happier lives but to experience deep intimacy in relationships. If you're looking for peace in your lives and relationships this book is a wonderful blueprint for attainment."

Michael Stone, author, teacher, and radio host


About The Author

Over the years I have developed a systematic approach working with couples called, The Heart Path. The system offers a unique point of view that has helped hundreds of couples and thousands of individuals see new possibilities for their relationships.

I started my coaching career in 1995, and have designed and produced more than 25 classroom series for strengthening couples in their relationships. The common theme that lives within everything at The Stages of Love is Partners For Life, partners committed to life versus a life sentence.

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