About Thomas...

At the Stages of Love, I offer a methodology that gives one access to their natural ability to heal themselves. To rid emotions, issues, and behaviors that interfere with being happy and maintaining peace of mind.


I work with couples and individuals pursuing a relationship, as well as those with other personal interests.


I deal directly and effectively with Phobias, Inhibitions, Anxiety, Anger, Depression, Stress, and Avoidance. Everything that might make an individual or couple feel stuck, become aggressive, run from issues, feel annoyed, frustrated, or unhappy can be brought to your EmRes® session.

You and your partner are not at the effect of your emotions, regardless of their intensity. I will work with your natural ability to resolve them permanently. Once resolved, the stressful emotion or trigger will not return.


Dealing with any or all of these issues or behaviors removes barriers in the way of you having a happy life and love-filled relationships.

Over the years I have developed a systematic approach called, The Heart Path, I offer a unique point of view that has helped hundreds of couples and thousands of individuals see new possibilities for their relationships. 


I started my coaching career in 1995. I have designed and produced more than 25 classroom series for training and development. The Seven Stages Of Love, The Next Best Version of Yourself, The Seven Stages Of Self Expression, Breathtaking Relationships, Developing Your Core Competencies, The Emotional Body, The Theme of Your Life, The 30-Day Lovers Challenge, and The Date Night Project, naming a few. My original series that still lives within all the work I do I called Partners For Life, partners committed to life versus a life sentence
I went on to lead transformational programs for the world's largest personal development company. I grew and developed my coaching skills and expanded into new and advanced modalities. 

I have trained inside the work of Peter K. Gerlach - Parts and The Internal Family, Patricia McDade - Consulting Alliance, and is certified through the HEARTMATH Institute, the Awakening Coaching Alliance, and The Emotional Health Institute.

I am committed to people getting what they long for. And what most people say they want is pure, heartfelt love. A healthy relationship is one access to fulfilling that longing. I work with individuals and couples to achieve their heart's desire. Do you know your heart's desire? Let's determine that together.

I support and train coaches to work with couples and individuals in taking action, specifically in areas where they are stuck. Bringing clarity, where they have been indecisive or ineffective. My coaches and I waste no time in getting to the real issue. We get to the root of any issue quickly and effectively, giving your relationship new life.


You may think it takes a lot of time, you might think there is a need to uncover a lot of your past experiences to get you to what you really want. I encourage you - there is no need for that - work with me - we will get you to peace of mind and happiness with very little effort and in a short period of time.

As a Transformational Leader for more than 25 years, I have led to, worked with, and trained more than 14,000 people.  

Committed to people getting the results they long for.

@2020 by The Stages of Love - Thomas Kuster

Tel: 916-459-5704

Email: TheStagesofLove@gmail.com

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