*Happy couples don’t argue

    Arguing isn’t by any means a “goal”, but communicating is, even if the communication is heated at times.  Heated communications can express aspects of our partner’s inner most needs that we can nurture, creating a stronger bond and a secure future for the marriage.

    *Couples stay married because they’re happy

    This is a myth.  Many unhappy couples have learned to put on a happy face while being psychologically divorced.  For many this is more lonely and painful than a legal divorce.


    *Romantic love is what marriage is all about.

    This couldn’t be further from the truth.  While STAGE ONE is a magnificent time of bonding and learning, it is hormonally, the real marriage begins at STAGE THREE when the hormones have subsided and the couple is more grounded in reality. www.thestagesoflove.com.


    Thomas is a leader in the area of transforming relationships and couples.  Having written numerous programs and workshops since 1997 his strength is in maintaining high standards of keeping love alive.  Thomas is a writer, trainer and coach and has personally worked with more than 10,000 people.

    HeartMath® Certified Coach